We had a Norwegian exchange student in 1978-79. The Christmas after she went home, Eddie and I, along with our son and daughter, were invited to spend Christmas with Grete's family. Her dad was an army general in command of all of north Norway. That put us north of the Arctic Circle for the holiday. We participated in their traditions at home, church, and on the army base. Since her dad had access to the King of Norway's cabin when the king wasn't there, that was where we slept. It was an unforgettable Christmas with a wonderful family.
To make it even more unusual, it all took place where it was dark except for two hours of twilight each day.
Thursday, December 22, 2016
Sunday, December 18, 2016
For more years than I can recall, every year my mother has made Christmas ornaments for the Bible Study Sunday School Class, my sister’s elementary school classes, and for her grandchildren. When two of her granddaughters began teaching elementary school, their classes also made the list for the handmade treasures, and their second- and third-graders drew sweet construction paper thank you notes for Gram.
Recently the mother of one of those elementary school children from many years ago sent a picture of his ornament hanging on the family’s Christmas tree. That photo and my mother’s 91st birthday inspired my sister to post a request on Facebook for those who have one of Gram’s special ornaments to respond with a comment or picture. To date, she has received over 50 replies.
This week while sharing homebound communion with a long-time Saint John’s member, I noticed on her tree several of Gram’s ornaments including a pair of bells made of communion cups. Faithful sharing of our love, gifts, and time make this season so special, and I have been touched by how these small ornaments lovingly crafted of yarn, pearls, and crystal beads have brought joy to hundreds of children and adults all over South Carolina for so many years.
Thursday, December 15, 2016
I can always, without failure, count on you to give me daily bread to sustain my needs. Please use me as a disciple whose heart will be formed to reflect the character of your precious son, Jesus. You teach us to give help to the needy and give freely all of the resources, love, and kindness that you have shown me. Help me to always serve you and to value your great gifts. As Jesus teaches, the heart is where the treasure is. Thanks and praise to you, Father, always.
Monday, December 12, 2016
Friday, December 9, 2016
When I first told my husband my title for this post, his response was, “isn’t that conversation played out.” Funny he said that because I felt the same, but I also felt it still is an issue each and every year. I love this season. I love everything about it and having small children makes it even more exciting!
“Christmas waves a magic wand over this world, and behold, everything is softer and more beautiful.” ~Norman Vincent Peale
I noticed early on that my kids were very specific about their wants this Christmas and very vocal about it. I completely understand their sweet minds and those bright eyes looking in amazement at the latest toys. However, our job as parents is to allow them to see beyond the excessive commercialism of Christmas. I keep a Nativity Scene in our home ALL year. A few Christmases ago I went to put away the decorations, and I felt that the Nativity had no place in the attic.
Our family is blessed to participate in Journey to Bethlehem at St. John’s this weekend. This is always a special time for our family and now that our children are getting older they can experience it with more understanding.
I’m thankful for a Christian mate who also wants to make our children aware that Christmas is not their birthday but Jesus’ birthday and we begin our Christmas morning by singing Happy Birthday to Jesus before going downstairs. I love that we do that and aim to limit the gifts. I’ve heard of others having a birthday cake for Jesus and a special seat for him at dinner.
We will continue to learn how to make Christmas special in our own way and to keep Christ present in our home during a time that is easy to become distracted by the search for the perfect gifts and doing all the things we “should” do as a family. God wants us to live happy lives and sometimes that just means being present with those around you and loving one another in the simplest ways.
We look forward to church on Christmas Eve each year and this year two of our children will be a part of the nativity scene that evening. All of these opportunities for our children are one of my biggest praises to St. John’s. I love that the children, the future of the church, is our number one focus. That is evident in all we do as a church family.
The Hamilton Family hopes everyone has a blessed Christmas and a Happy New Year!
Tuesday, December 6, 2016
How to describe the gift the St. John’s women’s book club? We have read many different books and learned so much about God and ourselves through the process. As I was reading the last book, “For the Love,” I realized just what a gift the St. John’s women’s book club has been to me. When the author, Jen Hatmaker, talked about how important her supper club friendships had become, I thought to myself, 'I want something like that.' Then it occurred to me that I have THAT with the ladies of the book club. They have become such a treasure and blessing in my life. Whether the ladies come for the first time, every time, or come whenever they can, I enjoy spending time with every one of them.
I love that everyone is so honest. All comments are accepted. We are learning and thinking with each other. The words form these ladies are so thought provoking that I always wish I had taken more notes after the book club is over. I get so into our talks that I never write down as much as I wanted. So here are just a few words of wisdom, my book club friends have shared throughout the year:
“Sometimes we feel guilty about saying 'no' to anything. Instead of trying to do everything, we need to try to focus on what God is calling us to do. If you say, “yes” out of obligation or guilt instead of saying "yes" because God is calling you, then you could be taking away someone else’s call. I find that God provides a way for you to help in areas in which you have a passion or interest." Beverly Marks
“We live in a “right now” culture. We want God to tell us now, but sometimes God wants us to be patient. While we wait, we grow.” Lollie Haselden
“It is not always about overcoming, it is about learning.” Betsy Woodlief
“It is okay or your kids to see you struggle and lean on God” Beverly Marks
“When you really devote your life to prayer and being in the word, amazing things happen. If you don’t take the time to listen, you may not hear Him.” Elizabeth Morgan
“Sometimes we fill lead to go somewhere to serve, but sometimes you bloom where you are planted.” Beverly Marks
Okay here is one more actual quote from Book club just for fun:
“I just want to ride my adult tricycle, go get on the treadmill, and go home and clean. It's a perfect day!" Lacy Ngo