I had to call 911 on Hilt’s first day of preschool. The day had gone so smoothly until I had to
pick him up from school. I picked him up,
put him in the car, and buckled him in; then, I buckled my two month old in the
car seat next to him. I put my purse in
the passenger seat, closed the doors and walked to the driver side. You can probably see where this is
going. The driver door would not
open. I have one of those new keyless
entry cars. You never have to take your
keys out of your purse. The car unlocks
all by itself when it senses the keys are near.
Moreover, the car is never suppose to lock all by itself, and you are
not suppose to be able to lock your keys in your car. Well, my car had a fluke malfunction. I could not get any of the doors opened, and
it was noon on a hot day! So on Hilt’s first day of school, I dialed 911. Firemen cam with lights flashing. They began pumping oxygen into the car while
they worked to get the door open. Fortunately,
the firemen arrived quickly and got them out quickly. During the whole ordeal, many church members,
staff, and preschool staff stayed to comfort me. They flagged down the fire truck, and
afterwards, they even stayed longer to offer emotional support, water, wet rags
to cool off the children, and even called my family for me to explain why I was
late. My church and preschool family,
and the firemen were my heroes that day.
But they did more for me than they know.
You see, months earlier, I had decided I wanted Hilt to experience the
joy of helping others more frequently. I
wanted to start planning an act of kindness activity that we could do together
each week. In fact, I am pretty sure God
told me that he wanted me to start this activity after I prayed for guidance,
but that is a whole other story. Now,
even though I felt God wanted me to do this, I kept putting it off. First I said we would start in the summer,
when school is out; then I said I would wait until Neeshie is born, and finally
I decided to wait until she was beyond the newborn stage. I would have kept putting it off, if it
weren’t for the kindness shown to me.
The kindness of all those people on the day I called 911 put me into
action. Their kindness meant so much to
me that I wanted to show kindness to others right away. The next week, I started by giving all my
heroes sweet treats and cards expressing my deepest gratitude. What is interesting, once I started looking
for ways to show kindness, I found multiple acts of kindness to do every
week. The impact on my 3 year old has
been huge. Not only did he experience
acts of kindness from his church family, but he also contributes now. He now often asks about the needy and makes
suggestions on what we can do for others.
The lesson I got from this experience is that just doing nice things for
others is a witness of God’s love, and CAN really influence others more than I
realized. When I think of witnessing, I
think of telling others about God, but people showed me God’s love through
their kindness. I have also seen the
impact from our weekly acts of kindness, but I will save those stories for
another blog.